Sunday, May 24, 2009

Who Needs Men Anyway?

i woke up today at 11:06 in the morning and the first thing i did was grab my cellphone and viewed who remembered me and even exerted effort to greet me a great morning. so there's this 11 messages coming from different people whom i met in the different stages of my life, some are silly jokes and some are just plain forwarded messages, and some, a simple "good morning RN!" --- that was nice though.
there's this one silly morning greeting that states: "how good it is to wake up early morning and realize that after all, i am single with no strings attached, internally and soulfully happy --- i don't need a man to complete me... all i needed is friends that would laugh and share glorious moments through a lifetime --- a nice morning to you dear friend =)..."
it was funny --- and i was like, young woman as i am, do i really need a man to complete me? am i not whole as a human being with out a man? would i be weak and fragile with out a man? what is it in a man that i cannot live without?
I've been constant single --- with on and off relationship (through text and chat) for the past 3 years. i have not been committed and i am happy doing dates and having healthy meals with anyone who would ask me out --- of course, i would tag along Belyn when i go out on dates, thats for a safety and prevention matters --- haha
maybe because i am just 21 --- and i want to take the wanders of life and jest up to the highest with life's great zest.
I'm single. officially.
I'm single and eventually happy with my decision of being one.
I'm single not because I'm sour graping or something.
I'm single not because i am not loved by someone "special" --- as a matter of fact, I've been loved by many that i don't want my love to be shared and developed to a single man alone. I want my love to be shared to others --- so others too feels my love for them.
I'm single even though my friends are happily involve and in love with their "special-loved ones" --- i don't self pity because i don't have one.
someone left me because I'm no good, its his lost and not mine.
someone don't like me because I am --- most often than not --- silly and crazy --- its his lost too and not mine.
I'm young after all --- and I'm single and i am happy --- just like what the message i received this morning --- i don't really need a man to complete me. all i need was family and my friends --- my nephews (ram and blix --- and the new baby that we will have) and i feel complete already.
who needs a man anyway? when i am happy without him

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