HONESTY: an idea from kuya Jo's 360 post

i always believe that honesty will set us free.
i also believe that we need to be honest --- a necessity to life (as i see it)
but someone told me its nice to lie once in a while.
become "plastic" than become too honest
most often than not, i am honest ---
most often than not too --- brutally honest :)
they say its wrong to be honest --- or somewhat like that, they state.
well... i guess... its pretty nice to be civil and not to become hypocrite

personally speaking ---
i value honesty so much, so much that i could end one relationship if dishonesty is factually seen --- and if someone is guilty about being totally dishonest

i believe that once is enough for a wise woman. and if someone caused you pain because of dishonesty, there's no reason to give that someone a second chance.
because if that someone is worth calling a "friend" she/he wont do anything dishonest, which in the first place, she knows that it will cause you to feel a deep shattering pain.

when should we give second chance for people who become totally dishonest?
is there enough mortal reason that we give second chance?